The subtleties in life escape you, don't they? There's a difference between A and B.
A) Who wants my character?
B) My password is "GOOSE420".
Can you guess what it is, or do I have to spell it out for you? According to your logic, since Paradox now knows the password it is his character. Oh... wait a minute. If knowing the password is all it takes for a character to become yours, then, one, stolen characters aren't really stolen, they're given away. And two, since 20+ people in that server also knew the password, the character is now theirs as well. And since those 20+ people did not consent the password change, Paradox stole a character from each and every one of them.
Just because he was the first to run and open a new Tribes window does not make him the rightful and legal owner of that character.
Oh, and for future reference, I do not have a learning disability, nor am I unintelligent. Nice try, though.