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-eViL-

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« on: October 3, 2004 10:32 am CDT »
Hey guys, I recently had an encounter with my freshman year girlfriend.

Facts up front:
1) I lived in Kingsford, MI for 13 years (K-9)
2) She was my freshman year girlfriend
3) I broke up with her because I was moving
4) I haven't been back to Kingsford since I moved to Cinci. (3 1/2 years)

I walk in to see a couple of old friends of mine from high school and she is sitting on the bouch with another really good friend of mine.  It took her about 3 seconds to realize who I was, and all she had to say was: "Why don't you disappear for another 3 years."

Any thoughts??  I have never had this problem before, and its massive because she is going to college here, so either I set this straight now or have some more issues with her later on.
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« Reply #1 on: October 3, 2004 10:48 am CDT »
THIS GOES IN ASSISTANCE!1111111


Duno.
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« Reply #2 on: October 3, 2004 10:58 am CDT »
Assistance is locked.

I would just  say, go about your daily bussiness, if she can't get over with what happened 3 years ago, then obivously she has a hang up. Your young, you don't need to be bothered with the drama crap. Just ignore her stupid commits, she is probably hurt because you dumped her.
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« Reply #3 on: October 3, 2004 12:24 pm CDT »
I am going to post as if I am an expert on the topic, not that I am.  I won't say "probably" much--just "this is how it is".  I am teh forum multi-expert!

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If she's going to be that much trouble, forget her.  You've had 3 years and have probably continued dating--mark it old news.

Women are always difficult, but if that is her personality ask yourself if you want to continually put up with it...because I doubt she'll stop.

Overall, this is how it is vs. how she sees it (exaggerated, but probably a 50-75% of being accurate):

HOW IT IS
You had to move (not your decision) and gave a (presumably) sad farewell.  Now you're at the same establishment and have a chance to regain an old friend.

HOW SHE SEES IT
You and you alone entirely made the decision to get away from her, probably because of something you saw in her you didn't like.  Now you're back and want to pretend like you didn't move because of that.

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« Reply #4 on: October 3, 2004 01:57 pm CDT »
I say, if she's still (hot) and available and you still have feelings when you see her, then see if there is anything still there.  If she's with someone else, then there's not alot you can do.  If she doesn't wanna be friends or more, then it's no loss to you.  Hell, you haven't seen her in three years.
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« Reply #5 on: October 3, 2004 02:02 pm CDT »
you're worried about an ex from freshman year?? and you're in college now. hmm tell her to stop being a unsavory woman.
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« Reply #6 on: October 3, 2004 02:53 pm CDT »
gotta ask yourself a couple questions

1. was she a really good friend of urs?
2. do you want to get back with her? aka shes hot and cool
3. how long you date?
4. what kind of personality does she have?

it seems she still has feelings for you if shes gonna be a lil unsavory woman and say that.
if u like her try talking. if not, tell her to fork off. or you can just play hard to get haha and be a unsavory woman to her
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« Reply #7 on: October 3, 2004 04:27 pm CDT »
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you're worried about an ex from freshman year?? and you're in college now. hmm tell her to stop being a *****.


She is going to school here kat, she isn't just visiting, she is actually here for school.  that changes it because then it isn't just a one time thing, I may see her more often now just because I know I have other friends here on campus that are also her friends.
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« Reply #8 on: October 3, 2004 04:59 pm CDT »
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you're worried about an ex from freshman year?? and you're in college now. hmm tell her to stop being a *****.

She is going to school here kat, she isn't just visiting, she is actually here for school.  that changes it because then it isn't just a one time thing, I may see her more often now just because I know I have other friends here on campus that are also her friends.


yah I got that much. Im saying that she's not worth getting upset or stressed out about. Its a thing of the past and if she's all hung up over it still then just let her be. That doesnt mean you have to change your life just to avoid her.
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« Reply #9 on: October 3, 2004 05:25 pm CDT »
Take pride in the fact that you meant that much to her.

And now you can ignore her.
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« Reply #10 on: October 3, 2004 09:19 pm CDT »
at a college where the guy:girl ratio is about 9:1, it is hard to pick an option.
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« Reply #11 on: October 3, 2004 11:10 pm CDT »
Really? I think mines closer to 1:5 repectively. In that case, try to be friends again? See if see wants to "catch up" since you had to leave?
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« Reply #12 on: October 3, 2004 11:12 pm CDT »
Hersh, I'm pretty sure her telling him to dissapear for three more years isn't condusive with m4d r3uni0n s3x0rs... :)
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« Reply #13 on: October 4, 2004 10:16 am CDT »
Wow... You are worried about a ratio?


Ratio means nothing unless you are just trying to get a piece of ass.

The woman you want will pick YOU out of everyone else.
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« Reply #14 on: October 4, 2004 11:56 am CDT »
Now that is an attitude that will never get any  :wink:

Joking aside, decide how you feel about her and disregard how you THINK she feels about you because you really don't ever know. Hell, she probably doesn't even know...
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