Im not too kindly to the FPS RPG's unless they are more real time, and are more realistic. Thats one huge reason why I dont like Morrowind that much.
One really good example (even though its not an RPG) would have to be Theif and Theif II. The damage to enemies happened just as you swung.
In Morrowind, I can swing a knife at a flying annoyance thingy 20 times untill I finnaly hit it.